Gender Roles Proposal

I think that it is definitely a problem that some women think a marriage proposal should be a complete surprise. It is important to be on the same page as your significant other. I also think people hold a lot of high expectations when it comes to proposals. I think a lot of men would be completely caught off guard if the girl proposed. I think some would feel disappointed that they didn't get to buy a ring or plan a romantic engagement. I go back and forth on whether or not I think it is the man's job to propose. Really I think it just depends on the couple and whatever they feel. As long as the two people getting engaged are in love then that is all that matters. Not so much the ring or how it happened, but the decision that they will spend the rest of their lives together. My grandparents got engaged on my grandmother's birthday, and my dad proposed to my mom on his birthday.

"wonderful gift and awesome responsibility"

I thought the Church was very clear and open about their views on sexuality. Sex is not meant to be considered dirty or impure, but sacred and unifying. The sacred act of sex, in the Church's eyes, is only sacred and acceptable when performed in the unity of marriage between a man and woman. The Church feels sex is mainly  for procreation. They address that sexual activity between singles, homosexual or heterosexual, is not acceptable. The Church also states they are aware being chaste is not always the easiest thing, but try to point out that in the end it is worth waiting for. From reading this article, I have a better understanding of the Churches veiws.

Who I am

I am who I am for many reasons. One of the biggest reasons is my family. I am lucky to have two very awesome and loving parents. Throughout my whole life they have always supported me and believed in me. They let me participate in whatever activities I wanted, allowing me to be my true self. My parents never tried to change who I was or control what crafts or hobbies I participated in. This freedom helped me develop into the creative, well-rounded person I am today. I know that I can accomplish anything I put my mind to because thats the way my parents raised me.

My friends are also a very big part of who I am. I am lucky to have many different friends from the activities I participate in. Some of my best friends are from my club volleyball team when I was 13. We all still talk and hang out as much as possible. We are all very different, but share the same passion for volleyball and love to laugh. I also  have my best friends from both grade school, and the Mount. My friends allow me to be my wacky self without judging me. When I am around all my friends I never feel pressure to act a certain way. Not all of us have the same interests, but we respect eachother and accept eachother for who we are. When I am feeling down, or need someone to talk to my friends are always there to cheer me up or to listen. In return I try to do the same for them.

Music also makes me the person I am today. When I was very young I knew I wanted to play an instrument. At first I started with the piano. I enjoyed it, but I wasn't fully committed to the instrument. Then I began to play the clarinet in 3rd grade with the school band. I loved going to practice and playing the music. Once I had an understanding of the clarinet I doubled up on the alto saxophone. Once I got to high school I continued with my music in the orchestra. Freshman year I taught myself how to play the flute. Music has always helped me when I am frustrated, feeling down, or am just plain bored. I will randomly pick up one of my intruments and play to get away from the stress of life. I love learning how to play new instruments. During orchestra I am always asking to see someone's violin, cello, or trying to keep a beat on the drums.

Mission Statement

To appreciate the little things in life. To try and live in the moment and take in the beauty of life. To laugh with loved ones or even strangers everyday. To not take my talents for granted, and share my music, baked goods, creativity and skills with others. To always make sure I am there for my friends, family, and neighbors when they are in need. To stay true to what I feel is right in my gut, and always try to be honest. To not treat others diferently because we do not see eye to eye, but treat them with respect and embrace thier way of life. To have an understanding of other people and to be understood.